Confidence? What I feel about it…

These are some of the genuine and practical facts I've learnt from myself so far....

Love yourself: Did you ever notice that when you wear a great outfit to work or your school, you feel a lot more confident than the day when you dress in your routine trousers and shirt? Well it’s just a matter of how YOU feel about yourself, not others. Like yourself.  Feel good. There’s no one quite like you.

Don’t get too hung up on your looks: Did you know that dressing every day in a perfect way is totally fruitless? That’s right. Everyone one you meet daily, your boss, colleagues, friends or even the elevator guy you run into on your way to work has already painted a portrait of you in their head and every time that person sees you, he has the same impression of your looks as the first day he saw you. Unless you get yourself a makeover every day, nobody will notice  the little flaws or details in your looks. 

Learn to laugh at yourself:  You fall in front of a crowd. Now you have two options. You can either feel embarrassed, think what people thought about you  or you can laugh at yourself and quickly stand up and make your way. Yes, a few people may even laugh at you at first but when they see you laughing as well, the situation gets changed. Now everyone is not laughing at you, but they are laughing with you. There’s a huge difference between the two and when you actually learn to laugh at yourself, you will take your confidence to a level you probably never imagined.  Just take the word “embarrassing” out of your dictionary. You do not have to worry about being “”embarrassed”” in front of any one.

Dress to impress yourself: Out of all the people in the world, it is more difficult to impress yourself than anybody else. If you haven’t realized it till now, you will someday. Wear the outfit you yourself feel good in. Once you are impressed by yourself,  you can’t be intimidated by others.  Make yourself see how amazing you are.

Give yourself a chance! :: Again, the key to having a great confidence is to feel good about yourself.  Love yourself.   Know what you are good at. One you do this, no power in the world can bring you down. 

Let people see that you are happy with yourself: Confidence goes downhill when you let your weaknesses bother you. Learn about your weakness, accept it, but never let It bother you. Also let people see that you are happy with whoever you are. A great personality does not come from great looks, it comes from the side of you that is visible to the people around.

Have your stand, be focused and be determined: Once you resolve on something, always try to make it your target and let nothing else bother you. You should have that clear image of the person you wanna be in the future. There will be thousands of people in your life who will say thousands of things and it is up to your judgment as to how much to grab and how much you ignore. But whatever you do, never ever lose the path. Because you my friend,  have a lot to do.